Tan Pei Xuan (MIC170046)

GIG1005 Social Engagement
Reflective Essay

Tan Pei Xuan (MIC170046)

They say the best things in life are free and no doubt, I totally agree with it. Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions. I’ve got special memories through the Social Engagement course while volunteering at Kampung Desa Temuan. Without this place, I might never came to realization that it is the little things in life which are usually left unnoticed, are the things that brings happiness in one’s life. 

We never thought of getting the chance to gain so much experience in Kampung Desa Temuan. Before we came to this decision, we had many discussions to decide the place and activities that we are going to do as the course structure has changed slightly. We were a bit confused when we were told to carry out activities which are different from previous batch of seniors. Nevertheless, we are very lucky and grateful to have Dr Puah Suat Moi as our course coordinator-she is always there to support us and give us guidance throughout the whole project. 

On 29th April 2018, all 44 of us Biomedical Science first year students gathered at ASTAR bus stop as we took a bus to the Kampung. We did many preparation prior to the event day such as test run, preparing the materials needed for Explore Race, preparing lucky draw gifts and many more. We reach our destination after a 30-minute bus ride. Once we reached, we divided ourselves according to the task allocated for us earlier. 

The task allocated to me on that day was to take pictures, from the time we reached the kampong until all the activities ended. As expected, there were a lot of cute kids running around once we reached our destination. We settled down with all the things we brought and were briefed again by our HOD before started with our assigned task. 

I’ve managed to take many pictures during the Explore Race and career talk besides food preparation by our food bureau. They kids were quite shy at the beginning of Explore Race. After much cajoling and small talk with them, they started to open up a little and became more active. Some of the children even danced in front of us and made jokes with us. There was a special feeling in my heart and unexplainable when I saw them playing in front of us. It just feels like the child in me is alive again. 

While I was interacting with the kids, I realized that they are easily kept happy with the little things that we might have not noticed, they are happy when we show concern and give them words of encouragement. It was during that moment that I realized we adults are too busy chasing happiness we defined ourselves- money, luxury items, expensive holidays. However, the definition of happiness for the children is different. For them, they are happy as long as someone shows concern and give them words of motivation. It was during this point that I ponder upon this question- Why can’t we just be as happy as them? Why do we make our own lives so complicated when things can actually be simple?

After lunch, the children had a career talk with us and they played musical chairs. They had fun playing musical chairs and in the midst of playing, one of them fell down. I was shocked but thankfully, my course mate managed to handle the situation well. 

Time certainly flies so fast. It was already 4 pm and we had to leave. It was sad to leave the kids behind. One day being a volunteer at Desa Kampung Temuan makes me realize the pros of volunteerism. Spending at little bit of time with the children makes me more relaxed and enjoyed the cherishing moments with them. In my opinion, urban people are highly encouraged to join volunteering activities. A few hours of volunteering will help to relieve stress generated due to the hustle and bustle of city life. Education is very important as it will change their lives. ­­­­

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